The Eternal, Internal Black Hole of Need
“There is a deep hole in your being, like an abyss. You will never succeed in filling that hole, because your needs are inexhaustible. You have to work around it so that gradually the abyss closes.
“Since the hole is so enormous and your anguish so deep, you will always be tempted to flee from it. There are two extremes to avoid: being completely absorbed in your pain and being distracted by so many things that you stay far away from the wound you want to heal.” ~Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish To Freedom
There are so many different thoughts you could focus on within this short meditation. And while I hesitate to distract you by talking about my own focus, I do, however, have a question:
What do you suppose he means by telling us to “work around it”?